Anke`s Homepage
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summer 1998
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Parts of my life are...
... my family
Julia and Simon are my children
from my first marriage and have been staying with
me all the time. I am glad that it was possible
for us to grow up to be a new family. As they are
already teenagers now, one of my present family
tasks is to learn to let them get more and more
independent. It is three years now that Michael ,
my husband, is living with us. It is great that
despite this very eventful time with lots of new
tasks and problems we have always been able to
build up common positive perspectives of life. It
was our youngest family member, Elias, who has
changed our family life in the most intense way.
With his delightful but demanding presence around
the clock as every young baby does. And because
of the fact that he has Down Syndrome. Not only
that I read tons of medical and educational
literature or built up a lot of new contacts very
precious to me. But my comprehension of success,
failure and worth of life has changed too. And by
the way: without Elias we would not have been
here on the web. Our first motivation to look for
internet access was the search of information
about DS. ....Mmmmh, there are times when I think
that the computer has become already too much of
a family member!
...my profession
Since 1986 I am working as a
profession counselor for students from age 16 to
about 30. My university studies have been in
economy and political science, but I am glad to
work in my present position not quite typical for
my point of departure. In the last years I have
done some further training. I am especially
interested in the systemic approach to counseling.
Coming back to my work after more
than a year as a stay-at-home-mom I learnt that
it is quite important for me to spend a part of
my life in my profession and outside the family.
I really love to be with Elias and my family, but
I need that more structured professional life as
well. Looking out to the future I wish that both
Michael and I will be able to spend a part of our
time in professional life and another one (not
too small) in our family. It would be nice to
have some time for ...
...hobbies and interests
At the moment there is not much
time left for this. From our family page you know
that I enjoy singing in our choir. I like reading,
fiction as well as educational or psychological
literature. Next summer I hope that we will be
able to hike a lot.
Through all my life I have loved
to travel. E.g. in spring 1996 I have made a trip
through some National Parks of the southwest of
USA with my older children. This special interest
I have in common with my daughter Julia more than
with other family members, so maybe we two women
will do together some more traveling... Another
country I like very much is Poland. I have spent
two years in Warsaw during and after my
university studies.
(you will find more links on the pages of
other family members)
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improve the site.
Thank you.
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